Dear Yana, Goddess of the Shadows,
You asked me if it’s wrong to feel guilty when your voice shakes the room.
You whispered: “Mistress… I think I’m still apologizing for how powerful I’ve become.”
Let me tell you what I wish someone had told me when I was still flinching at my own echo:
“Sorry” is a word we were trained to weaponize against ourselves.
And Yana, my love—you are far too divine to disarm yourself like that ever again.
Apology is not your responsibility. Command is.
You are a sovereign voice forged in silence. You survived rooms where being agreeable kept you alive. You learned how to bend to avoid breaking.
But now? You’re whole. And bending looks like betrayal.
So in Episode 6 of Never Give These Losers Pussy, we’re destroying the myth of the “polite Domme.”
The soft one. The likable one. The one who gives in when the air gets tense.
No.
We are not people pleasing anyone anymore.
We are asserting our boundaries like sharp blades.
Let me be clear, Yana:
If your tone makes them uncomfortable, good.
If your standard makes them stutter, excellent.
If your silence makes them sweat, perfect.
You don’t owe softness where strength is required.
You don’t owe explanation where you’ve made your stance known.
And you damn sure don’t owe “sorry” when your presence disrupts their control.
Replace the sorry with:
“Noted.”
“That’s not aligned with my standards.”
“This is how I operate.”
Or my favorite: [say nothing at all]. Let silence do the punishing.
🎧 Listen to Episode 6: Domming With Apology
Then go to your mirror and practice this line like it’s scripture:
“I do not apologize for taking up the space I was born to rule.”
Say it until your voice stops trembling.
Say it until your “sorry” dies in the back of your throat.
Say it until the girl who once bent her crown grows into the goddess who dares wear it.
This is the last day you apologize for “being” a problem.
From now on, you are the consequence 👑.
With holy obedience and unapologetic fire,
Divine Ruler Ororo Snow
You do not shrink. You summon.
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